Orgasmic Birth, Hypnobirthing; Reality or Gimmick?

I came across this website from baby center about "Orgasmic birth". So the ladies started a thread about it, and many women on there said they couldn't imagine it - these are women who's experienced labour. There was also a labor nurse who said she'd never ever seen a woman enjoy birth, so WTH? I watched their little trailer and as far as I'm concerned it's a crock of shit. I mean really? I know I'm a cynic, but do they really think I"m gonna fork over $20 to hear about how I should envision a penis or some other inappropriate sexual fantasy while trying to push a 8 pound baby out of my hoohaa?? COME ON PEOPLE!! (Not sure If I can post links, you can just google it).

I've already decided to go all natural, but that's because I truly believe this is best for both mom and baby; but no way am I going to fool myself into believing that I can just waltz into there and think good thoughts to an easy labour.

Then there's the Hypnobirthing / hynobabies phenomenon. Some women do swear by it, and I'm sure they made it through a lot easier thanks to the coping techniques learned through self hypnosis. I'm not saying that I can't be hypnotized; I just know I can't hypnotize myself. I've never been one of those free-spirited, one-with-nature, yoga-lovin' people who can sit and meditate.

So I guess I'll do some lamaze classes or maybe bradley, hire a doula and ensure I'm fully educated on what to expect.

I have to accept it's gonna hurt, A LOT. Once I have realisitic expectations as well as good people around to support me during a tough time that will be worth it in the end!!

Tanisa Samuel