I'm so excited, wish I had more time to blog, just a quick update she's here!! Here's the pic of my mom happy with her grand-daughter!!
Next post: Birth Story....
Tanisa Samuel
This is what I get for posting previously about not being ready 6 weeks prior to EDD.
Now I'm a week past due date and no signs of imminent labour!! I'm going nuts here!!
I'd planned a natural unmedicated birth but of course my OB doesn't give a damn about that, she just wants to induce me. When I refused the induction for last night, she insisted I do bio-physical profile (BPP) and Non Stress Test (NST) to check that the baby is ok. Mind you, there was no reason or indication that the baby was anything other than healthy. So off we go to the hospital, do the ultrasound, baby looks perfect, face down, facing my back, moving as she should, she has more than enough amniotic fluid etc etc,, Oh by the way she has hair which I'm so excited about!! Can't wait to see her beautiful face!! But, I digress..... So then we go up to L&D for the NST. They check the baby's heart rate and my irregular contractions which are all fine - monitoring me for 2 hours (WHY I DONT KNOW), then they call the doc and say everything is fine, she insists on giving me a bag of IV fluids and monitoring me for another hour. I know that all she was doing was looking for any reason to keep me there and induce me!! But DF, me and my healthy baby eventually walked outta there AFTER 6 HOURS...... although she was not in my arms but still in my belly. She's just not done cooking and I am trying to be patient.
I've got almost no dilation and a thick cervix so an induction right now would more likely end up with a C-section since my body is not ready.
The other issue is that my mom, the eager first time grandma, who's here for two weeks to help me with the baby is waiting too, and the longer this goes on the less time she has here, by the time the baby comes she's gonna have to leave to go back to work - THIS is what's making me crazy. I really don't need her help now......... I'm capable of doing everything, ugh.... I need to just calm down, but my hormones are making me so emotional too.....
People (including complete strangers) are always saying - "Ooh, I bet you can't wait to have the baby!!"
I usually answer calmly; "Oh yes I can"
I'm just not ready! Oh yes I have all the baby gear and baby clothes - I mean really? At this age she only needs diapers and onesies right?! Ok not really. Its so funnny how in the beginning, during the excitement of finding out that I'm actually WITH CHILD; 40 weeks seems so long, but actually I feel like it's flown by! As a first timer, I've never experienced the euphoria, the instant love connection and the bliss that comes with giving birth to this human being. All I can think about is the immense responsibility of raising my daughter as well as the more immediate issues such as lack of sleep (I love my sleep), incessant crying (I'm impatient), not knowing what to do (I dislike being unaware or out of control), worrying about SIDS, freaking out about whether she's ok, keeping her safe and alive....... It just all seems so stressful!!!
Of course I'm excited about our daughter. I know she's going to be beautiful but I guess a part of me is worried too and I keep hearing horror stories about the birth process and about babies not making it and I'm just trying my best to be cautious - or is it just me?
At 19 weeks we decided to do a 3D/4D ultrasound to confirm the gender!! This baby is 100% girl, she was not shy at all about showing us the girl goods the whole time I was at the 3D Ultrasound place!!! She was so active, rubbing eyes, kicking, flexing those legs and arms, we got 83 pictures of her! Saw all fingers, toes, cute butt and of course the Vajajay!
I'm so happy!! All we have to do now is find a name! Oh and what a dilemma this naming thing is. Especially for a girl - because we all know what a special little princess this one will be!
We already have one princess, my dear step daughter Rachael, although it's hard to believe she's almost grown (17 years old when this princess makes her debut) and will make a great big sis for this little one.
So today (Jan 12, 2010 - 17 weeks 3 days) I went to my usual body sculpting class then I decided to stay for Yoga. I took it easy and at the end of the class during the final relaxation I put my hand on my tummy and the other on my heart like they tell you in the pregnancy yoga DVD, and yep, I felt those little kicks!! AMAZING!! This is the first official time (apart from the flutters I felt in week 13 - fluke!).
I was super excited, I lay there giggling and enjoying it. The kicks were strong enough that I could feel them on my hand on top of my belly!! How cool is that! I guess laying quietly really helps, since I'm quite a busybody usually! Oh and I'm sure the stretching and focused breathing gave the baby lots more oxygen too!!
Update - I kept on feeling movement throughout the night as well :) so I'm thinking this will become more and more consistent.
OK so I went on the scale a couple of days ago and almost had a heart attack! 12 pounds at 17 weeks is more than recommended at my starting weight. I'd started my exercise regimen but no running initially because of M/S but recently because I'm lazy and don't want to wake up! Although I have to say sleeping at night is much less restful now with all the bathroom trips!!
I found myself being constantly hungry and eating like a damn truck driver whenever I felt like it because well: "It's for the baby!!"
Also I had switched my prenatals to the Walgreens brand and it increased my appetite like crazy - so I switched back to the old one and now its much better.
Let's face the uncomfortable truth here!! Pregnancy should not be a time when we let ourselves go! When we make excuses and when we just indulge! Exercise is good for you and the baby and we can make an effort to look cute when we leave the house.
I've always worked VERY hard to maintain myself: A minimum of 2 kickboxing classes a week, 2 bodysculpting classes AND running 40 minutes every morning mon - friday!
I had to sit back and think for a moment. I have 5 months left and then what? At this rate I will agin something crazy like 50+ pounds!! EEkkk. After the baby I will no longer have the pregnancy excuse what then? I already know it's not easy.
I've been back to the classes now for a couple of weeks (taking it easier of course!!) and today I jogged for 40 minutes for the first time in over a month. I ran with Natasha and we ran very slow, kept my HR under 140 and it felt so AMAZING!
Update: 17 weeks 4 days - down to 10 pounds over the pre-preg weight. I'm not trying to LOSE weight just going back to eating healthy and working out!
TANISA SAMUEL
BIRTH PLAN
Hello to the wonderful nurses and support team of Holy Cross Hospital, I want to thank-you very much for helping me through my first labor and delivery experience. I have had a healthy low risk pregnancy so I am hoping for a natural childbirth experience and I appreciate your support and expertise. While this is my wish, I am also realistic and flexible; I feel confident that I can make informed decisions when needed.
LABOUR & DELIVERY
• Freedom to return home during the early stages of labor
• Stay home until active labor begins
• Ability to move freely
• I would prefer intermittent external fetal monitoring
• Freedom to eat and drink as needed
• Prefer not to be connected to IV fluids - I will replenish fluids through drinking water
• I would prefer not to manually rupture membranes
• Limit vaginal examination, especially after membranes are ruptured
• Allow 24 hours for labor to progress AFTER membranes ruptured
• Please No Pitocin
• Please do not offer an EPIDURAL or other narcotics such as demerol
• Freedom to surrender to the experience, allowing my body to tell me what is needed and follow instincts for movement, positions and when to push
• I’d like to stay active and upright during labor
• Use alternative pain relief methods such as showers, baths, massage etc.
• Prefer NOT to lay flat on back while pushing
• If progress is slow, baby may be in wrong position - use alternative methods of turning baby - such as getting on all fours and allowing gravity to help baby turn his back to my belly.
• If instruments required – I prefer vacuum over forceps
• Please please NO episiotomy, I prefer to tear.
• If possible, I’d like measures taken to reduce possibility of tearing perineum; such as warm compresses and controlled pushing.
• No injections to perineum please, unless I tear and require stitches postpartum.
Third Stage and First hours after birth
· I’d like my spouse to cut the umbilical cord (2nd option: My Mom)
· The clamping and cutting of the cord can be done immediately
· I would like to donate my cord blood cells
· Whether or not I have had stitches to the perineum, I would appreciate an ice pack to reduce swelling and discomfort
· I would like the baby placed directly in my arms
· After observation, APGAR, weighing & first bath, the baby can be wrapped in a warm blanket and placed in my arms or father’s arms
· Please administer Vitamin K and eye care
Healthy Baby Care
· I would like to begin breastfeeding within the first hour or whenever she is hungry
· Please do not offer my baby a bottle or formula
· I will feed the baby on her cue
· Newborn exam can be performed by hospital pediatrician
· If we have a boy, I’d like to circumcise him within two days with local anesthesia
· I’d like my baby immunized